Me And
You And Everyone We Know (***)
review by Jon
Waterman
After his divorce, Richard desperately tries to keep the kids
in his life. They do live with him part time, but they purposefully
make themselves unavailable. After all, the kids have their
own troubles trying to fit in at school and in the neighborhood.
Meanwhile, Christine, a driver and caretaker for the elderly
and disabled, is attempting to get noticed as a performance
artist by a major gallery. On a chance meeting at Richard’s
job as a shoe salesman at an upscale department store the two
hit it off and find themselves complicating their lives even
more with all these fresh emotions. Can they successfully pull
off the juggling act?
It’s kind of tough to describe the plot in an interesting
and representative manner. The film is just a little bit too
quirky for that to be possible. So, imagine if you will a more
grounded, less controversial Todd Solondz. That would be writer/director/lead
actress Miranda July. This movie contains several slightly
quirky characters that take precedence over a plot full of
potential taboos and artistic flavor that’s designed
to be a connecting line (instead of a driving force) between
clever scenarios. This results in some unmotivated actions
that are there just to add more conflict when it’s not
really needed so that the characters can reaffirm their unpredictable
side to you. A big difference between the two writer/directors
is that Solondz pushes his envelope farther. The inhabitants
of July’s small world are real, believable people that
just happen to have little secrets that make them interesting.
Solondz makes a point to exploit and announce those secrets
to further his story. Neither way is correct or incorrect,
they’re just different.
The comedy isn’t always all there. It too sometimes
takes a backseat to establishing the characters in a desired
light. However, there is one scene that made me laugh harder
and longer than any film I’ve seen in a long time. Just
try to hold back when Richard’s seven year old son Robby
explains the meaning behind this symbol: ))<>((. How
can you not crack up when such a little kid is describing a
sex act that even John Waters hasn’t heard of before.
And to top it all off, the performances are great. The boy
that plays Robby, Brandon Ratcliff, is simply amazing. Very
few child actors can portray such innocence while still coming
across as an actor who knows what he’s doing. He plays
off the others very nicely and easily steals every scene he’s
in. The others are pretty good, too. Even with the aforementioned
unmotivated moments, they’re able to keep things on track
and seem true to the overall atmosphere of the film.
Not everyone will like this movie. Miranda July is a performance
artist and of course that is front and center here. Not only
do we see some of her pieces within the film, but the whole
film is also something of a larger piece of work put on display
for us. It’s given a narrative structure to make it easier
to swallow, but you can’t deny source. You may need something
of an open mind to really enjoy the film. Be willing to embrace
a little strangeness. Be very willing to accept a lot of indie
cleverness However, even if you do, the way the film ends leaves
something to be desired.
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